Take this quiz to find out if your relationship needs a "tune up" or a "major service

If you agree with at least three of these statements, you may want to come in for a "tune up". If you agree with four or more, you are probably due for a "major service". Keep your coupleship running smoothly.

AGREE OR DISAGREE

• When my partner and I disagree we end up losing our tempers

• My partner and I rarely have sex

• Drugs and alcohol interfere with our relationship.

• We tend to scream and yell at each other when we are angry.

• We often go to sleep angry at each other

• There are some things we just can’t talk about

• We find it difficult to ask for what we need

• It is easier to blame our partners than it is to accept our own responsibility.

• We are ashamed of ourselves as a couple

• We repeat patterns of dysfunction from our families-of-origin

• We have stress due to blending families

• We have problems with interfering inlaws, ex’s or the other parent

• We have extra pressure due to being in a non-traditional relationship such as mixed cultures, LGBTQ, kink and poly.